Achieving lasting change requires more than just a desire to be different—it demands intentional steps and unwavering commitment. When I found myself back at Holman Prison in April 1982, I was determined to change my life for good. But I quickly realized that change wasn’t easy, especially when surrounded by the same old influences.
The first and most crucial step to lasting change is letting go of the past. When I returned to Holman Prison, I told my old friends about my newfound faith. They laughed, mocked me, and offered me free drugs and prison julep, a homemade alcohol known as “Hooch.” They couldn’t believe I would turn my back on the old convict code—never tell on anyone, and certainly never admit guilt.
Their reaction was expected, but I knew I had to make a clean break. I had lost my old mind and gained the mind of Christ. I told them I didn’t need drugs or julep anymore because I was a Christian. They scoffed, saying, “We’ll give you two days, and you’ll be running with us again.” But I was determined not to fall back into my old ways.
Another crucial step is choosing the right companions. The Bible says, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13). In the past, every attempt I made to change had failed, but now I had the power of the Holy Spirit helping me. I knew I couldn’t hang out with my old friends anymore because they wanted to see me mess up. I realized that if I continued to associate with them, I might slip and fall back into my old habits.
This was a big step, but one I had to take to move forward with God. I needed to distance myself from anyone associated with sin, such as drugs, alcohol, sex, or crime. You can still pray for them and encourage them to change, but close association will only cause you to backslide.
Amos 3:3 says, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” If the ones you’re walking with are not walking in the same direction—after the same thing—the Lord Jesus Christ and His Kingdom, then you’re not going to make it. Some think that they’re strong enough to withstand the onslaught that the devil brings on them from those that they’re surrounding themself with who walk contrary to their ways. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says, “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” Other translations say it this way: “Don’t be fooled…Bad company corrupts good character.” If you think those around you are not effecting you—you are a fool.
Once I distanced myself from my old friends, I sought out new ones—people that would support my new dedication to Christ. I made friends with other Christians who believed as I did, and together we encouraged each other to develop and grow in the Lord. Getting involved in a church that believes miracles are still for us today was a crucial part of this. Surrounding yourself with like-minded believers provides the support you need to not slip back into your old ways.
In prison, many made excuses for not serving the Lord. They refused to go to church because they believed those attending weren’t sincere. They would claim that most people in the prison chapel were hypocrites. But I knew it didn’t matter how much someone else disobeyed God—I was determined to worship Him and live by His word.
I kept living according to the Bible, despite the ridicule. About six months later, the same men who mocked me started calling me “Preacher.” This nickname wasn’t meant to belittle me; it was a term of respect from the other convicts. They would say things like, “That man lives what the Bible says, and he is not a hypocrite.” I’m not bragging on myself; it was Jesus Christ who gave me the faith, ability, and strength, and I simply took advantage of it. He deserves all the glory and honor. The Lord used me to pray with many of them and lead them to Him.
My old friends never expected my change to last. They were convinced I was using the Bible to con my way out of a life sentence without parole. But when I didn’t take drugs, drink prison wine, or get involved in the prison underworld again, they were shocked. That was in 1982. Now, in 2024. I am still changed! Jesus Christ will set you free and keep you free.
Lasting change isn’t easy, but by taking intentional steps, choosing the right companions, and committing to the journey, it is possible. With faith and the power of the Holy Spirit, you too can experience a change that endures. God is with us!
